Cool and Calm
Al-Imran (The Family of Imran) 3:159
فَبِمَا رَحْمَةٍ مِّنَ اللّهِ لِنتَ لَهُمْ وَلَوْ كُنتَ فَظًّا غَلِيظَ الْقَلْبِ لاَنفَضُّواْ مِنْ حَوْلِكَ فَاعْفُ عَنْهُمْ وَاسْتَغْفِرْ لَهُمْ وَشَاوِرْهُمْ فِي الأَمْرِ فَإِذَا عَزَمْتَ فَتَوَكَّلْ عَلَى اللّهِ إِنَّ اللّهَ يُحِبُّ الْمُتَوَكِّلِينَ
پھر الله کی رحمت کے سبب سے تو ان کے لیے نرم ہو گیا اور اگرتو تند خو اور سخت دل ہوتا تو البتہ تیرے گرد سے بھاگ جاتے پس انہیں معاف کردے اور ان کے واسطے بخشش مانگ اور کام میں ان سے مشورہ لیا کر پھر جب تو اس کام کا ارادہ کر چکا تو الله پر بھروسہ کر بے شک الله توکل کرنے والے لوگوں کو پسند کرتا ہے
And by the Mercy of Allâh, you dealt with them gently. And had you been severe and harsh¬hearted, they would have broken away from about you; so pass over (their faults), and ask (Allâh's) Forgiveness for them; and consult them in the affairs. Then when you have taken a decision, put your trust in Allâh, certainly, Allâh loves those who put their trust (in Him).
Al-Imran (The Family of Imran) 3:153
إِذْ تُصْعِدُونَ وَلاَ تَلْوُونَ عَلَى أحَدٍ وَالرَّسُولُ يَدْعُوكُمْ فِي أُخْرَاكُمْ فَأَثَابَكُمْ غُمَّاً بِغَمٍّ لِّكَيْلاَ تَحْزَنُواْ عَلَى مَا فَاتَكُمْ وَلاَ مَا أَصَابَكُمْ وَاللّهُ خَبِيرٌ بِمَا تَعْمَلُونَ
جس وقت تم چڑھے جاتے تھے اور کسی کو مڑ کر نہ دیکھتے تھے اور رسول تمہیں تمہارےپیچھے سے پکار رہا تھا سو الله نے تمہیں اس کی پاداش میں غم دیا بسبب غم دینے کے تاکہ تم مغموم نہ ہو اس پر جو ہاتھ سے نکل گئی اور نہ اس پر جو تمہیں پیش آئی اور الله خبردار ہے اس چیز سے جو تم کرتے ہو
(And remember) when you ran away (dreadfully) without even casting a side glance at anyone, and the Messenger (Muhammad SAW) was in your rear calling you back. There did Allâh give you one distress after another by way of requital to teach you not to grieve for that which had escaped you, nor for that which had befallen you. And Allâh is Well¬Aware of all that you do.
Al-Hadid (Iron) 57:23
لِكَيْلَا تَأْسَوْا عَلَى مَا فَاتَكُمْ وَلَا تَفْرَحُوا بِمَا آتَاكُمْ وَاللَّهُ لَا يُحِبُّ كُلَّ مُخْتَالٍ فَخُورٍ
تاکہ جو چیز تمہارے ہاتھ سے جاتی رہے اس پر رنج نہ کرو اور جو تمہیں دے اس پر اتراؤ نہیں اور الله کسی اترانے والے شیخی خورے کو پسند نہیں کرتا
In order that you may not grieve at the things that you fail to get, nor rejoice over that which has been given to you. And Allâh likes not prideful boasters.
Grace of Humanity; A Universe, Responsibility, Privilege, nearer than jugular vein, 85%, 0.01%
Prophet Muhammad (PBUH)’s Visit to Taif
Headed by Jibril, and with permission from the Almighty, the angels rushed next to the Prophet -upon him blessings and peace-:
“Say the word and we shall destroy that tribe!” they said.
But despite the vicious treatment he had received, the Prophet of Compassion -upon him blessings and peace- still only had good wishes in his heart, as he turned to the gates of heaven:
“Allah! I only submit to you my own vulnerability; that I have lost strength and have been ridiculed…
O the Most Compassionate! If you are not angry with me, I will not in the least worry for the troubles I have undergone!
Allah! Guide this tribe, for they do not know.
Allah! I seek your forgiveness, only for your sake!”
The Old Woman Who Threw Rubbish There lived an old woman in Mecca who did not like the Prophet Muhammad much at all. Every day as Muhammad passed the old woman’s house on his way to pray, she would throw rubbish out of her window onto his head. Yet Muhammad would never complain. He would simply continue on his journey as if nothing had happened.
The Prophet (s) said, Today is the day of mercy. Today is the day God makes Quraysh faithful and honorable."
Then, the Prophet (s) ordered Imam 'Ali (a) to take the banner from Sa'd b. 'Ubada.
After the conquest of Mecca, the Prophet (s) stood at the door of Ka'ba and granted an amnesty for all. He turned to the elders of Quraysh and said, "What do you say now?" They said, "Goodness! You are our brother and nephew who has come to power." The Prophet (s) said,
"But I say what my brother Joseph (a) told his brothers; that today you are not admonished (criticized, reprimanded). May God forgive you for He is the most Merciful of all the merciful."
Tulaqa' Group: Abu Sufyan and others who were embraced in the mercy of the Prophet (s) were called Tulaqa' (meaning "the freed") after the saying of the Prophet (s) when he (s) said, "What do you think I would do with you?" They said, "Goodness! You are a benevolent brother, son of a benevolent brother." The Prophet (s) said, "Go for you are the freed."
Raise your words, not voice. It is rain that grows flowers, not thunder.
Words Can Build or Ruin, Words Can Be Stinky or Honorable
What comes out is what’s inside. The same logic applies to you: when someone squeezes you, puts pressure on you, or says something unflattering or critical, and out of you comes anger, hatred, bitterness, tension, depression, or anxiety, that is what’s inside.
Bad Mouth People are Like Garbage Truck (Story)
100 Mouzo 500 Dastan
1. Morals Urdu 22 / 536 English can be found, it needs some more search
Allah, the Wise, has said: اِنَّکّ لَعَلىَ خُلُقٍ عَظِيمٍ
And certainly, you stand on sublime morality.
The Holy Prophet (S) said: بُعِثتُ لِأُتَمِّمَ مَکاَرِمَ الْاَخلاَقِ
I have been sent (as a Prophet) to perfect the morals.
34. Forbearance 197 / 536
Allah, the Wise, has said: إِنَّ إِبْراَهِيْمَ لَحَلِيْمٌ اَوَّاهٌ مُّنِيبٌ
“Most surely Ibrahim was forbearing, tender-hearted, oft-returning (to Allah).”
Imam Al-Sadiq (‘a) had said: إِذَا لَــمْ تَکُنْ حَلِيماً فَتَحَلَّمْ
“If you are not forbearing then portray yourself as one possessing forbearance.”
Sheikh Abu ‘Ali Thaqafi provided long branch of tree to his neighbor pigeon-fancier when Sheikh got hurt with neighbor's stone.
Imam Sajjad AS treated well Hisham Ibn Isma`il (the maternal uncle of ‘Abdul Malik Ibn Marwan) even this man was harsh on Imam when this man was in power.
Qais Minqari's son was killed by his nephew. He continued and completed his sermon.
Imam Al-Hasan AS treated The Syrian with grace even the Syrian was abusive.
Sheikh Ja’far Kashif Al-Ghita didn't react when he was spat on face rather, he helped Syed.
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