Problem Solving Marathon
Problem Solving Marathon - By Sandeep Maheshwari
1) Problems are 3 types, physical (health issues), financial, emotional (mental, psychological)
Right understanding: what is the problem. Current situation; free of past regret and future fear (uncertainty). Focus on great stuff. It's not easy because we are surrounded by fearful people.
When we improve our capability, we overcome our fear more.
Improve and excel your skill and expertise at the level that you enjoy confidence that no one can fire you from your position.
Whatever you have, and you are doing, create a sense of thankfulness and gratitude. In the morning (start of the day) and in the evening (allocate a time). It's like exercise. We have to do. It's not intrinsic. In start, it looks difficult.
About universe, parents, health, breathe, eyes, legs. Listen gratitude affirmations (21 days). GIGO (garbage in garbage out). Change the input.
Actions and thoughts we input, become our dreams.
2) Measure your efforts and result. Career or course (get ready to change) if not suitable for your intuition.
3) Personality matching is important for the career. Everyone has some wish to do social service but very few can understand.
Rose flower is spreading its fragrance. Its social service which is being done by it. It has nothing to do extra. Trees, birds, grass are providing social service. They need no try to mask or copy some other.
We follow crowd. We live confused life, with no clarity.
Flower is flower, tree is tree, bird is bird. Analyze your nature and proceed accordingly.
We, the human beings, have no clarity of vision. We just follow some role models.
Some humans are very creative (non-creative career is unsuitable for that personality). Some like to talk to strangers. Some professions need laser sharp focus for a while.
People with extensive experience will guide you as per their vision. Same is true for narrow tunnel vision.
Learning and doing becomes effortless when you reach at the point where you should be (personality aligned career).
4) We mistakenly think that we can teach others. Everyone tries to understand as per his perspective. You need to understand his situation, issues, how other person thinks.
Successful salespeople don't talk too much. They ask, listen and then propose their product and sell. They can tell 10-100 benefits, but they don't. They don't even tell a single benefit. They only talk about the solution of the client's problem with their product. So simple it is. You have to understanddddd them first.
Right time, right point. No need to tell everything every time. German, Japanese, Russian, Urdu, Punjabi, English; how can they understand each other.
If age group is 15-16 and you are talking about business and entrepreneurship, it's not right combination.
5) A lot depends on financial support. If available, then better to place self in some higher competition. Also, better to select effortless, more mind aligned subjects by the age growing. Sacrifice small (instant) for big achievement. Some are very good in long hour studying.
We have limited time and money (resources). Calculate your time (value) and compare it with services (expenses, say $2000 per month), you are putting. You are aiming at $10000 per month. Then this investment is worth. Plus, you are sacrificing $5000 a month which you can earn right now.
You have to aim unique type of career. Then possibility of your success will be high.
6) After breakup in relationship, how to get out of that situation. One is not able to put full potential what he is doing.
We live life in illusions. We think what we see, we can do, even in some cases we think that we have done that.
What we can see, is surface and it has a lot of background hard work, losses, mistakes, experiences. Ground realities are different than illusions.
Challenge is that put your time in an effort where you have no time to think around for unimportant issues.
We live our life on the basis of theoretical expertise. Examples: swimming, carpenter, poultry farm. Before delegating, you have to go through by yourself successfully.
7) Fear of losing, sibling and brothers, sisters. Unconditional support. State of mind changes with age. We have to face many uncertainties. Sense of loneliness, nothingness bothers.
Replace your fear of uncertainty for future with belief that whatever will happen will be better than past. I'll be better version of myself.
Otherwise, we'll become liability for everyone around us. In some cases, brothers, sisters, spouses, parents, kids, circle of influence; are root cause of problem.
Future is constructed on the foundation of our current thoughts (seeds).
Most people say, I'm cutting my life. Life is cutting them eventually.
Fact is that future is not in our control, but this is also fact that we can plan our future.
Yes, I'm 60 now. Yes, I can die in next 10 years. It's not in my control. But if I'll be alive. It's in my control.
The present defines the future. The future builds on the foundation of the past.
Our future is in our control 99.999999%. 0.0000001% is not in our control. Insurance companies know this formula.
You can ask the possibility of your life from insurance company. They will tell you on the basis of data, they have.
99.999999% of life is in our control but the condition is we have to get rid of 0.0000001% fear of uncertainty.
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It takes different level of effort and time span for different persons and their environment and circumstances also play role to change a habit and be a better person. Sometimes it takes 21 days, in some cases less, in some cases 210 days. But it's worth to work on being a better person by changing habits.
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