To Train a Child
4 Life Lessons
Grocery store and ask for discount. (Taste of rejection). Grocery store with less money and more purchase (Management of unexpected situation).
Whenever asked question in the class, raise hand anyway (learn courage and managing embarrassment).
Bring him to park with unknown children, facing rejection, wherever acceptance, teamwork.
Encourage to enter into a competition, speech contest! which is the most severe.
Fear of speaking in front of 10+ people is equal to fear of death and jumping from a tall building. (Power of courage.
Al-Baqara (The Cow) 2:155
وَلَنَبْلُوَنَّكُمْ بِشَيْءٍ مِّنَ الْخَوْفِ وَالْجُوْعِ وَنَقْصٍ مِّنَ الْاَمْوَالِ وَالْاَنْفُسِ وَالثَّمَرٰتِۗ وَبَشِّرِ الصّٰبِرِيْنَ
And We will surely test you with something of fear and hunger and a loss of wealth and lives and fruits, but give good tidings to the patient.
Ash-Sharh (The Opening Forth) 94:5-6
6 إِنَّ مَعَ الْعُسْرِ يُسْرًا 5 فَإِنَّ مَعَ الْعُسْرِ يُسْرًا
And, behold, with every hardship comes ease: verily, with every hardship comes ease!
Ar-Ra'd (The Thunder) 13:11
لَهُ مُعَقِّبَاتٌ مِّن بَيْنِ يَدَيْهِ وَمِنْ خَلْفِهِ يَحْفَظُونَهُ مِنْ أَمْرِ اللّهِ إِنَّ اللّهَ لاَ يُغَيِّرُ مَا بِقَوْمٍ حَتَّى يُغَيِّرُواْ مَا بِأَنْفُسِهِمْ وَإِذَا أَرَادَ اللّهُ بِقَوْمٍ سُوءًا فَلاَ مَرَدَّ لَهُ وَمَا لَهُم مِّن دُونِهِ مِن وَالٍ
[thinking that] he has hosts of helpers-both such as can be perceived by him and such as are hidden from him - that could preserve him from whatever God may have willed. Verily, God does not change men's condition unless they change their inner selves; and when God wills people to suffer evil [in consequence of their own evil deeds], there is none who could avert it: for they have none who could protect them from Him.
I've missed more than 9000 shots in my career. I've lost almost 300 games. 26 times, I've been trusted to take the game winning shot and missed. I've failed over and over and over again in my life. And that is why I succeed. Michael Jordan
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